Family - Post Marriage

http://www.subramoney.com/2013/06/advise-to-boys-before-they-marry/

http://www.subramoney.com/2013/10/expenses-in-a-joint-family/

Accompany

04- Mar -2013

Intha paravaiyum vaanil uyarndhu parapatharkaga thanakendru oru thunnai kuyilai thedi kondathu, Antha kuyilin peyar Chithra.


Mattra vivarangal oru vaarathil therivikiraen.

This bird search for the supporting cuckoo to fly higher in the sky is complete now ,This cuckoo name is Chithra. Will let u know more about her in a weeks time.

Please hold all your wishes, Do come and wish us on the day of our reception and on our marriage days(i.e for the years to come :) ).

- Chitra Pathy
Wishes from my friends
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Laks : Nee thana antha kuyill…… Yaar veetu sontha kuyil……

Chithra : Rasave vartuhtama……Aaagayam surunguma………
I can hear that song laks

Thanks,
Venkat

Two little cuckoo Bird sitting on wall
One named lakshmi, one named chitra...
fly away lakshmi.. fly away chitra
come back lakshmi... come back chitra....
congrats....... machi......

Sreedharan S


Ippo thaan Mail Paarthen.......
Neengalum Chitra Vum Parakum Payanam miga alagaaga amaya valthukkal.
Nenjula irundha oru Periya bhaaram koranjaa maadhiri irruku..
I am so happy for you...
Eppavume foreign side layee irukkadheenga...
appa appao Vedanthangalukkum parandu vaanga...
Kandha Kumar S.


Idhu dhaanaa andha Kuyil ( Chithra ). Un idhayathin sondha kuyil.
Ganesh Kumar.

Documents Changes Required After Marriage.

1.Marriage Certificate. This is the most important document. Every institution that has your name on records like your bank, mutual fund house, passport office will ask for this document in case of change of name.


2.Gazette Notification: Some institutions ask for documentary proof for change of name in the form of a gazette notification.3.PAN Card: In case PAN card is held in maiden name, wife will have to apply for change of name in the PAN card. All investments in married name can happen only if PAN is available in the married name. For this the supporting document will be marriage certificate and/or gazette notification copy.

4.Address Proof: The wife can use the husband’s address proof to update her address in the bank account. Supporting document again will be marriage certificate, along with PAN in new name. In case they are moving to a new home, registration papers of the rented/purchased apartment will be accepted by the bank to change the address. Then the attested bank statement can be used as address proof for further documentation.

5.Change of name in bank account/other investments: It is ideal to update the change in name in bank /demat accounts first. Then at the earliest, change the name in other earlier investments like mutual fund investments, insurance policies etc. This will avoid unnecessary hassles in case any payments due are received in the maiden name when the bank account is in the married name. Change of name in demat account will take care of the holdings of stocks and bonds etc which are in dematerialized form. All these changes require marriage certificate/gazette notification, PAN and address proof.

6. Ensure that all investments have nominations done. If you need to change the nominee in earlier investments to your spouse, you should do it in the real earnest.

http://www.fpgindia.org/2012/03/money-matters-for-newly-weds.html

Marital Fights

Many marital fights are because of one person trying to change the other. It takes about 20 married years to realize that it is not worth the effort. Learn to live with the other person’s style – after all he/ she is doing it.

http://www.subramoney.com/2011/08/marriage-and-money/

commit morally, physically, ethically and financially

When you said yes to her commit morally, physically, ethically and financially. Decide that upto Rs. 1000, (with a cap of Rs. 3000 a month?) you will not fight, and anything above that you will take a joint decision. Saves blushes later on


http://www.subramoney.com/2011/08/managing-money-jointly-after-marriage/